Meet John Cena's engineer and fitness model wife Shay Shariatzadeh


The retired professional wrestler and Heads of State actor was previously engaged to fellow wrestler Nikki Bella, and married to Elizabeth Huberdeau


John Cena and wife Shay hug on the red carpet© Getty Images
Hannah Hargrave
Hannah HargraveUS Deputy Editor
Updated: 7 days ago
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John Cena might be a titan in the wrestling ring and Hollywood star, but behind the scenes he likes to keep his personal life, particularly his relationship with wife Shay Shariatzadeh, more private. 

The Playing with Fire actor occasionally delights fans by sharing glimpses into his bond with Shay, whose intelligence and charm blew him away.

The former professional wrestler has described his wife as "beautiful" both inside and out, but what more do we know about the woman who stole his heart? Find out below. 

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John and Shay met in Canada but she was born in Iran

She was born in Iran

Shay was born in Iran and raised in Canada. 

The couple's wedding certificate showed that Shay resided in Vancouver but her birthplace was Iran. 

Shay is an engineer

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Shay has beauty and brains

Shay boasts an impressive professional background, and holds a degree in Electrical and Electronics Engineering from the University of British Columbia. 

Her interest in engineering began at an early age. "I have always enjoyed math and physics," she told Motorola Solution's subsidiary Avigilon. "My brother studied engineering in school, and I remember one day he came home with a project, and it was an autonomous car — and that was it!"

Her career has seen her work in technology, with roles in software and product management for various companies, including as a product manager at Sonatype, an enterprise software company, a job she started in December 2019. showcasing her sharp intellect and technical prowess.

Her mom is her inspiration

John and Shay cheeky display on red carpet© Getty Images
They've been married since 2020

Shay comes from a hardworking family and her mom's work as a surgeon inspired her. "The strongest and most hard-working woman I know is my mother," she said in Avigilon's International Women's Day feature. "The biggest lesson she taught me was to be independent and fight for the things I want in life."

Shay added: "While she was at the peak of her career, she gave it all up to move her family to Canada to give us a better future. She is the reason I fight to be the best version of myself, to be kind and to never give up."

Shay and John's love story

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The pair met in a bar

Shay and John's romantic journey began in 2019 when they met in Vancouver, Canada, while John was filming the comedy Playing with Fire

Their connection was instant. She was at a restaurant with friends for dinner and John was there to watch the Super Bowl

Shay's friends approached him for a photo, and he has said they still have that picture hanging in their home. 

They exchanged numbers and the rest is history. "I left the restaurant and on my walk home I [texted], 'It was so nice to meet you, you're beautiful, I'd like to get to know you more if you have any free time coming up I'll make time for you.'" John explained on The Howard Stern Show. "She's like, 'You want to go out this weekend?' I said, 'Sure.'"

Their wedding

John and Shay in black at premiere© Getty Images for A24
They had two weddings

Their relationship blossomed away from the media spotlight, and they sealed the deal in a private ceremony in October 2020 in Tampa, Florida. 

They had a second, larger wedding celebration with family and friends in Vancouver in July 2022.

He was previously engaged to Nikki Bella

Artem Chigvintsev and Nikki Bella posing red carpet© Rodin Eckenroth
John and Nikki split and she went on to marry DWTS's Artem Chigvintsev

John's relationship with Shay was his first since his engagement to Nikki Bella ended in 2018. At the time, they were just weeks away from walking down the aisle and had been a couple for six years.

"While this decision was a difficult one, we continue to have a great deal of love and respect for one another," the pair said in a statement. 

Nikki eventually moved on with DWTS dancer Artem Chigvintsev, who she married in 2022, however they divorced in 2024. 

Joined at the hip

John and Shay walk down the street holding hands© GC Images
John says they're always together

Shay is incredibly supportive of her husband's career both in wrestling related ventures and on-screen. 

She regularly graces red carpets with him and during an appearance on the Armchair Expert podcast, John confessed that they rarely apart from one another. 

"I travel with my wife. We go everywhere together," he said. "I certainly value her safety and well-being. "One of the promises I made to her on the altar was, 'I will never put you or I'll do my best to not put you in undue harm's way.'"

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